Majita, take it from me, size is not everything
Actually, only 20-30% of sexually experienced women think the size of your penis matters
By MPHO MOTSIE-MABUDA
I love talking about penis sizes because the sooner people accept the truth that a men’s ability to please a lover doesn’t rely on the size of his penis, the better. Let me tell you something that might shock some of you, Size Does Not Matter!
The saying ‘The Bigger The Better’ is total rubbish. The most important thing is What You Do than What You DO With It! A man’s masculinity is not determined by the size of his penis. So, my brothers, love your penises.
Many men lack sexual confidence and self esteem because of society saying the bigger the penis the better lover he will be. This of course is untrue. You see, for every vagina there is a penis that is either too big, too small or exactly right. Think of it as finding the perfect bra or that pair of jeans that fits correctly and makes you feel Oh SO Good! It also sometimes depends on compatibility and not the size.
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Love it because all sizes have their own ups and downs
Therefore, it is important to know how to pleasure your partner in various ways and not just rely on penetrative sex, also use kink, oral, fingers, toys etc for clitoral stimulation. Yes, your penis is important, I am not saying it isn’t, but what’s important in making a woman orgasm.
According to various research, the average penis size when measured by a ruler is about 13.1cm length and 11.9cm girth (when hard) and 9.2cm length and 9.3cm girth (when soft). The big question is, do women care about penis size? Actually, only 20-30% of sexually experienced women think size matters.
Most of these women enjoy the girth more than the length. They enjoy containment sensation (the feeling of fullness in the vagina). The biggest problem is believing that your penis is the only way to pleasure a woman.
Love it because all sizes have their own ups and downs. So, big, small or average, you must be a selfless lover. Make the pleasure of you lover your priority. Then, Size Will Truly Not Matter!
Mpho Motsie-Mabuda is a Relationship and Sex Coach
Email: mpho@intimateme.co.za
Cell: 063 680 5704