Female orgasms – so many ways to experience
They are not a myth, and can be consistently enjoyed if you know how
By MPHO MOTSIE-MABUDA
Female orgasms are sadly still quite foreign to many women even though the female body is a sexual treasure chest filled with so much orgasmic possibilities.
It is just such a shame that so many women have never experienced an orgasm, let alone all these different ways of getting pleasure from so many different parts of your body. This beautiful phenomenal unfortunately does not just happen naturally. You need to know yourself, learn about your body and be willing to explore.
Different body parts you can stimulate to orgasm:
Clitoral orgasms – many people, including women, believe that the clitoris is just a small button look alike thing on the outside of the vulva. Actually, it is huge, most of it is hidden inside. Its only purpose is for pleasure, it even has more nerve endings than the penis head.
Cervix orgasm – This can also be achieved with deep slow penetration with a toy or penis. You have a better chance of experiencing the orgasm instead of pain if you are really turned on. You can be on top to control the pace.
G-spot orgasm – it is found on the vaginal canal and feels like a sponge. It only appears when a woman is aroused, therefore many people usually do not find it. This is where we get female ejaculation/squirting so pee before you attempt to stimulate it, so you do not hold back when the G-spot ejaculation comes.
Anal orgasm – the anus has intense sexual nerve endings because the clitoris stretches all the way to the anus. So, this means anal sex for a woman can be just as enjoyable as clitoral orgasms, for some even better.
Nipple orgasm – Some women can get an orgasm through nipple orgasm only. When your nipples are stimulated, your brain releases the same feel-good hormones that are released when you experience a clitoris and g-spot orgasm. Many women’s nipples are connected to their vaginas.
Throat orgasm – There is a connection between the throat and the cervix due to a nerve called the vagus.The pleasure point in the throat can be located on different areas.
For some women it is located in the back side of their air tube, some on the front side of the mouth and some closer to the uvula (uvula is what Cardi B describes as the little dangly thing that swings in the back of the throat).
The above are just few of the many ways for a female to orgasm, which means, yes, there are more!
To put a cherry on top, we can even have multiple orgasms during one round. Unlike most of our male partners who need to cool down after an orgasm before being able to produce another erection.
This definitely shows, as women we also need to start enjoying sex just as much as men.
Mpho Motsie-Mabuda is a Relationship & Sex Coach – 0636805704
